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How do Desires impact my Life in Rehab?


My granddaughter Bailey
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Any desire can bring disappointment, frustration, sadness, loss, failure or depression.
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For example: I want my health back, now. I want to walk again, naturally, to be out of pain, to be home on my own, to be able to use my hands without the numbness and loss of fine motor skills.
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Any of these desires brings loss, suffering, unwanted emotions, and dissociation into negative thoughts.
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Accepting life as it is without judgment frees me to exist and surrender to it. I am exactly where I should be and staying in this moment is the only way to find happiness right here.
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Life is hard and as Maizumi Roshi said, Life is a shit sandwich somedays. Life is hardship at times, do not run from it or it grows bigger and more difficult.
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Use the breathing track (mindfulness) and let these desires flow on through. We have coping skills and wisdom to stay present, use it during difficult times.
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Today is;——”Release a Desire Day”

Evariste Carpenter

Does the satisfaction gained from our desires lead to happiness?  Is satisfaction worth the energy given to our desire?  In my opinion, no, absolutely not, in fact the opposite is true!!!!

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Maybe some of our desires bring loss,  resentment and low self-image with the constant need for satisfaction.  Do we set our sites on a lofty carreer, status, possessions, power, family and titles?
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All those desires bring a great responsibility to protect from loss while they are impermanent desires.  If we lose a job, a house, a mate or power , resentment and depression visit us.

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Approval or avoidance of disapproval guides most of our lives.  We can see that our happiness is handed off for others to control.  Let go of the desire for approval from others and accept yourself as perfect.

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My healing solidified when approval did not matter anymore.  Freedom had arrived.  Happiness is possible when all those desires were let go.

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Desires are not a Bridge to Happiness! Quite the Opposite.

Desires block our healing path directly.  They sidetrack us from being present and healing.  Let us see how many desires we can let go.

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Desire for approval would be a good start.  Needing  anything to much exposes us to loss.  How can we find peace when we need to serve all these desires?

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Examine every judgment (desire) that we serve today.  Do we need it?  Try following the breath, letting the desire alone.   Feel the body sensation activated.  Know the body mechanism without the ego involved to view it without bias.

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Mindfulness ( breathing track) is just self discovery through acceptance.  Practice with every breath’!!!!!!!!

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More Desires give us greater or less Satisfaction?

petre-velicu

 Funny thing in life, more desires equal more loss and suffering.  Having desire does not bring happiness.

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Desire is the wrong road to peace and calm.  It is the human path that is worn out and crowded with lost souls!

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I found happiness was hiding as far away from desire as possible.  Real happiness lacked desire and thought.

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Now let’s explore satisfaction from a fulfilled desire view point.  Does this satisfaction last.  No, not at all.  I have just as much desire or more in a couple of hours or less depending on the desire.

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We are chasing things that can not bring happiness or even bring satisfaction for any period of time.

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Permanent or Impermanent related to Satifactory or Unreliable

From Wisdom Wide and Deep by Shaila Catherine:

“Insight is not intended to foster cleverness, speculation, or intellectual knowledge.  Insight refers to an immediate knowing that will move you beyond the fragmentation of the conceptual mind.  Problems arise only through how you conceive of things.  You make experience problematic by conceiving of the impermanent as permanent, by interpreting that which is unreliable as satisfactory, and by viewing what is impermanent and unreliable as self.”

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In plain English, we can not think our way out or follow the ego.  The ego is impermanent and unreliable, needing approval and energy from us to exist.  Be here and experience now, instead of getting lost in cognitive wandering.   

Desires always appear anew, never satisfied, are they?

Happiness is a space for me, where desires fade for the chance at being present without distraction.

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Practice stepping back from the ego’s attempt, to judge, and file life’s experience around desires.

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Practice being without the ego directing life for a change.

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Remember these desires are impermanent.  Satisfying a desire does not last that long.

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No meal or success extinguishes desire.  Insatiable is a decent description of the ego.

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